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Thursday, March 17, 2011

Amber and family

I stumbled upon this photo in my laptop. These are part of her early sketches. She'll ask for paper and pencils whenever we travel and starts sketching stuff. This is her family, papa, mama and Amber.

No prizes for guessing who is who  :)                         

Hubs taught her to write date. 11-08-10.. I've kept her sketches in a box - Amber's sketches. I'm sure these will bring a smile to her face  .. 20 or 30 years on..
                                                                                 





Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Sharpeners

 One of the very annoying habit Amber has is continuously sharpening her pencils. . with the conventional twist pencil sharpeners. The pencil lead gets sharpened, they break with her carelessness and she sharpens again, then break and she sharpens again... WITH DELIGHT !!!

I have a big pencil sharpener but I never let her use it, otherwise no amount of pencils will be enough. I stopped myself short at yelling another 'NO' when she wanted to use the big sharpener. I was reminded of myself, me, at primary school and how I yearned to sharpen pencils with a proper sharpener.


 I taught her how to use the sharpener and left her to the device. She had a good time, sharpening ALL her pencils and color pencils.

Do you allow your kids to sharpen their own pencils and color pencils ?

Monday, March 14, 2011

The School Trip

I received an invitation to the first school trip. This time, it's to the fire station and Domino's Pizza. My first reaction was .. no .. no pizza for her. I gently explained she can't have pizza. She can't take yeast, cheese or sausage but she interrupted. .  no .. no need to eat.. see people make pizza only ! Mummy.. can go or  not ? ....  she was very keen to go.
  
How could I say no ? *sigh*... I talked to hubs about it and we cannot be certain she'll not eat pizza. It's not a matter of trust but she's hardly 5  and I cannot expect a 5 year old to understand food science or read ingredients. What if they offer her bread sticks? What if she takes cheese flavoured fries. Anything can happen to kick her off her allergy treatment track. I certainly cannot expect the teacher to be responsible for her diet during the school trip when they have to manage dozens of kids. She missed the Vitagen factory trip  last year and  was jeered by her classmates for missing the trip (yes, they do that !!!  nyah nyah nyah nyah nyah.. I am going to the Vitagen factory and you cannot go !!.. nyah nyah nyah...*SIGH* KIDS !!!) ...

I'm going with her.. Food inspector mummy will tag along.. .. visiting the Bomba should be fun !





Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Allergy Updates

It's been months since i last posted on her allergy.. now where do I start ???
The last few months has been very tough BUT we are seeing light at the tunnel now.

Back on December 30th last year, we had her tested and the result were bad. The readings were :

Candida     10
Dust Mite   16
Milk            7

Eggs            4

her allergies came back with a vengeance and one by one came knocking at our doors. It was almost like CDME wishing us Happy New Year and Gong Xi Fa Cai ! I got slapped, hard. From what seemed like a hope of getting her free from allergy, we are now pushed to the deep end, having to start all over again. We ran though the items she had eaten over the past few days and singled out sausage and chicken nuggets as the main culprit. .. and wait.. that's not the end,


and she was also tested to be allergic to food coloring :

E110       4    Sunset Yellow
E102       4    Yellow No5 or tartrazine.

I was shocked with this finding. Most, if not, all orange and mango flavoured food will have coloring added and even a certain brand 'K' cooking oil has coloring.

Dr Wong was very concerned on her coloring allergy as most of our food are very badly labelled. The law doesn't require strict and precise label of coloring and most you can get out is "permitted additives and coloring added"

E110 and E102 is approved in most countries including Malaysia but it is banned in Norway and Austria. Tartrazine appears to create an overactivity in children and other reactions include itching and rhinitis.

My immediate concern was to control her food intake. How could I send the message across to the childminder ? That they are not to use cooking oil of certain brand and isn't a bit too much to ask when I've already given them a list of no-no's to follow ? Chinese New Year was coming close then and how am I to break the news to the inlaws ? Not to use a certain 'K' brand ? I know they keep a good stock of that brand too. What about dining out ? Should I ask first, what brand of cooking oil they carry  or should I snoop in the kitchen ?

I've been trained to read labels in supermarket and now I have to zoom in to 2 more items. You'd be surprised that most food contains coloring, including custard powder !

Whenever we had to dine out, I'd ask what cooking oil they use and I'd do it discreetly, I felt I'm being such a fussy pot to scrutinize in detail what she ingest. The last I wanted to hear was to be more 'cincai' and let her outgrow her allergies. If you had a child with itchy eyes and almost want to scratch her eyeballs out and always screaming ITCHEEEE in public, you'd know what I mean and not to mention the cracked and bleeding heels, leaving stains of blood on her socks ! I had to do something for the poor girl.

I couldn't control 100% of her food intake esp on the cooking oil part BUT I did the best I could. I provided the childminder with cooking oil, I'd ask first, what kinda oil the restaurants used whenever we dined out. Some looked at me as if I was from the Health Department doing some kinda checks but most of them were understanding when I explained that my daughter is allergic to certain cooking oil.

I control her sugar intake, no more sorbets and fruit juice unless freshly squeezed. Any snack she took, I'd tell her avoid yellow and orange color. No lemon or orange mentos, just pure mint and better still, no Mentos at all but she's just a kid, I'd allow a Mentos or two as an occasional treat.  No more lemon or orange tic-tac. Anything lemon, orange and mango flavour is out.

She's back on a course of probiotics, this time on a different routine. Wake up - take her diluted probiotics, wait for 30 minutes, then milk. It's crucial that we get the probiotics in on an empty stomach for effective absorbency by the guts. Dr Wong explained a weak gut tends to attract more allergies and suggested a longer course of probiotics. Our mistake was to put her off probiotics once she was cleared off candida couple of months ago.

I'm back on a cleaning frenzy, changing her bed linens every week and mopping the bedroom every alternate day. Not a difficult task if you have the right tools. I'm using the Japanese magic mop that absorbs dust, hair and dirt wonderfully. I really should blog about this wonder mop soon. The hubs is given the task to clean the air cond filter every other week.

I admit being slack when her allergy improved last August, the sheets weren't changed as frequent as they should be and the house was always messy. I kicked my butt off the lazy mode and evenings you'll find me as Ms Merry Maid at home, cleaning and dusting (and sometimes cursing housework too, when I'm not in the mood)

Ok, 2 months went by, and on her second check up on 19 Feb 2011, her results were :

Candida     0
Dust Mite   0
Milk           0
Eggs           2
E110          0
E102          0

what can I say ?? we were over the moon with the result. never mind the slight allergy in eggs , at least it's all downhill and I hope it'll continue to stay there and get buried and over with.

I can't exactly pinpoint out when she had eggs but it could be one of the dinners where the meat was coated with eggs. My in laws loves to dine at Dragon-i and Amber can whack 4 'xiao loong bao' without the skin of course but now, no more 'xiao loong bao' for her and she only has steamed chicken soup and white rice.

Despite her good readings, I showed Dr her cracked and bleeding heels. All these while, I thought it was the food allergy that caused the cracks but we were wrong again. Dr tested her again for rubber (latex) and confirmed she's allergic to rubber with a reading of 14.

We're not too concerned, as long as it's not food allergy. I've put away all her Crocs and rubber sandals. Been shopping for canvas shoes instead.

As long as she's on her way to recovery, I'm at peace.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Bread Bread Bread - Yeast Free !!!!!!!

I was delighted when Irene shared her new discovery of yeast free bread with me. Her daughter Victoria and Amber are both allergic to yeast. That's a big thing for a growing up kid. That means no bread, buns, cream crackers, fatt kou, ma lai kou or any other kueh that's spongy! No bread - the comfort food when sick. No bread - to go with peanut butter. Simply no bread. Can you imagine life without bread ? Something so basic and simple ?

and for Amber, who lurvvvess Marmite yeast extract, it's torturing. I had to chuck away our big jar of Marmite to the bin when we discovered her allergy.

I quickly made my way to  Woods Macrobiotics Hanspeter Biobackerei to check their spread of offers ! I got some donuts, an pan bun and packs of dairy free soya chocolate. Amber loves the chocolate milk (soy version) treat and she polished the donut the same night :



 cinnamon donut
 red bean bun

Thanks Irene for sharing the discovery. Amber can now eat donuts and lots more food. No more boring rice cracker for her break time :D

The Princess Does Homework

Amber has lots of excuses when it comes to homework. She'll wanna go to toilet, drink water, this, that, this that and this and that.
Lots of this and that.

Once, she wanted to don her princess attire just to do homework. I caught her in this position :


All dressed up, princess costume, tiara, princess shoes and all.

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but almost nodding off. probably spent too much time, energy and effort getting all dressed up. 

That's my Amber.

Cashew Nuts - Wok Roasted

One of the CNY favourite snack is the cashew nuts. I bet any house with trays of cookies and nuts displayed, it's always the almond, cashews of pistachios that's a favourite and it goes well with beer, tea or soft drinks.

I waited till CNY was over to wok-roast the nuts. We had far too many snacks then and I'm glad that my table is almost clear now. I gave away lots of cookies and snacks to the neighbours and gardener.

Ok, back to the cashews. Here's how I did mine.

Wok-roast with sea salt

Pour sea salt over cashew and  fry on medium heat.

Stirring very frequent to avoid overburning
 Fry till cashew turns light golden colour

Sift away salt.
 Cool at room temperature and store in jars.

Now, isn't this a healthier way to gobble those yummylicious nutritious packed cashews ?  :D

Ballet, Jazz and such

Inspired by her current favourite cartoon  - Angelina Ballerina, she's been wanting to learn ballet.
As a full time working mom (and juggling the household without a maid), I try to accomodate as much as possible while maintaining my sanity. As it is, our schedule is already full, working on weekdays and weekends are spent on family, clients and balik kampung.

I found a class not too far and yet not so near from home which has baby ballet and jazz but transportation is an issue. Initially thought of asking Ah Boon to drop her off when he goes to pick up the kids from primary school but there's a 30 mins lapse from the time he drops her off till class starts. The center staff can't assist much either as there's always students and parents walking in and out and no one could keep an eye on Amber. Never mind that, they still allowed a free trial class for ballet and jazz. 

I wasn't allowed into the ballet class, Amber wouldn't allow me, not the teacher. She asked me to wait for her outside. :( 

I joined the jazz class and snapped some pics of her.




The kind Jazz teacher advised me to send her for baby ballet first. It's the pre-req for other dance class.
Now that timing for this center is not convenient, I have to look for others, preferbly a weekend class.

Sigh.. as much as I want her to pick up hobbies she has interest in, I find it too difficult to juggle time and transportation.

I guess this is the dilemma of most full time working moms !




Yuan Xiang Seafood Village

Our last trip to PD, we never stepped foot in town. Breakfast was included in the package we had our dinner at Yuan Xiang Seafood Village, which is just a minute drive from Avilion Admiral Cove, turn right from hotel until reaching roundabout and you'll see a Chinese temple on the hill and Yuan Xiang is located just beside it.
6th Mile, Hoon Leong Temple, Jalan Pantai, Teluk Kemang Sirusa, Port Dickson. Tel : 06 662 1032


For just 3 of us, we ordered 4 dishes, all by recommendation of the head waitress. Choy sum because it's grown locally and pesticide free, tung-po meat for Amber, steamed prawns for the broth Amber can take with her rice and superior soup la-la.

Food was good and cheap. Total bill RM60 !

Dirty Mee

Been quite sometime since I last posted 'foodie' place and this 'Dirty Mee' is worth noting.
We were on our way to PD last week and depending on which part of PD you are staying the GPS may direct you to pass by Lukut town or go straight to the Teluk Kemang exit. 

I told hubs to divert to Lukut, we needed lunch and as I can remember, we never had anything exciting for lunch at PD, other than KFC.

I searched in GPS for  food - Asian - Chinese and found a couple. The name 'Dirty Mee' strikes !!! Voila... we found our way there. 
Here's the address if you are not using Garmin Nuvi GPS.
 
 It's directly opposite the old Chung Hwa school, just before the Lukut Market. 

Let's see what's interesting in this old tattered shophouse..anyways, years before the recent development, Lukut was known as a cowboy town and the only attraction was an old ruins of Kota Lukut. Now, Lukut stands to benefit from the development around Port Dickson. It's an excellent stopover town for meals and such.

GPS only stated 'Dirty Mee' and so I walked in to the only coffeeshop in the block . Kedai Makanan and Minuman Mian Jiu and asked.. if this was ' Lar Char Meen '  ????? 

the girl instantly knew I was a non-local.

Hubs asked why they were called 'lar char meen' , not a very nice name for a food place. Apparently, they were relocated from the very dirty old market. The name 'dirty' or 'lar char' stuck on but have made them popular.

Over here, you order your noodles, plain or dark and choose your soup of either yong-tau-foo/meatballs or seafood which is pomfret/prawns. We chose the yong tau foo/meatballs combo.


A sizeable portion for 3 of us and cost RM20 (inclusive of tea)
Verdict : Very authentic and homestyle !! Perfect place for a quick lunch and certainly better than KFC !

and most important, Ms Fussy Eater likes it too :